How to live life better

We all get only one life to live and we want to live it to the fullest. But, the question is, how is it possible to enjoy it to the extreme when we are surrounded by a lot of tension, stress and other negative things. There are a few points that can help you to live the life the way you want. You can bring out more out of life as you want it to be.

1.       Find a passion in your life: A major part of our lifetime is spend doing our jobs and if that is not enjoyable, it will lead to dissatisfaction and eventually, our life will become more of a burden than a joy. We need to find out the work, that we enjoy or love to do, that is called our passion. The life, without doing the thing that you enjoy the most is of no worth. But the bitter truth is that people are unable to find what they love i.e., their passion. Either they don’t like anything or they are perplexed which one is their passion. If you want to find your passion, you must be experimenting by doing different things, and see in which you lose track of time. The activity you enjoy doing, without watching the time is your passion. And let me tell you there is no age, to search your passion.                                                                                                                                                                                                        

2.       Find a purpose:  Have you ever thought that why God has given you a chance to live a human life why not any other animal or creature, God wanted you to find a purpose of your life and throughout your life, you should try to achieve that. Life without purpose is meaningless. There are so many people who don’t have any purpose in life; they are just passing their life, not living. If you don’t know the purpose of your life, try to find it every day, till the time you find it. If you are now confused, what you need to find the first, a passion or purpose, so this below quote is definitely for you.

“If you can’t figure out your purpose, figure out your passion, your passion will lead you right into your purpose.” T.D. Jakes.

3.       Make action plan:  After the above step, find out how you can utilize your passion to help society and how can you earn money from that. There will be something that somehow matches with your passion, and need of society leading you to be earning your livelihood. You need to just find. If you are able to link your passion, purpose with your profession that’s where you get a perfect success.

“Being the richest man in the cemetery doesn’t matter to me… going to bed at night saying we have done something wonderful… that’s what matters to me.” Steve Jobs.

4.       Help others: We always ask a question, what society is giving us rather than what are we doing well for the society. If you are not in a position to help others, it’s okay, first raise yourself, groom yourself, become what you want, then try to give back to the society. Always think to help others, it gives you a great satisfaction, it will bring a smile on others face as well as on yours. There is a study that says, the people who help others, live their lives happily and have a less risk of heart attacks. Really, a smile that you bring on others’ face by helping them is such a healer of health.

5.       Tell stories:  There is lot to say, to someone, we always want a person, who is ready to hear us. We are burdened with the experience, and we just need a heart or person to hear us. That’s where stories of your life come in a picture. Storytelling is really an art, you should learn that. That will help both the listener and the storyteller. The storyteller will have a lighter heart after saying the story full of experiences and the listener will have something to learn from that. As life has the same challenges, the only thing that differs is to how you look at them.   

6.       Spend time with your friends, family and loved ones:  Always find time to spend time with your family. If you get hospitalize or ill, nobody from your workplace will be there to help you at that time, avoiding the exceptions, as they are everywhere. But, your friends and family is the one that bothers you about much. Do not forget your friends and family in the hustle bustle of life. Always find the time to meet them, at least twice or once in a month.

These are a few points I have jotted-down after reading and experimenting a lot. I wish you will try to implement these points in your life to live to the fullest. You might have heard that life must be great, not big. Follow these steps to make your life a great one. Don’t forget to smile at strangers sometimes as smiles keep you look good. Happy reading!